1. Communicate
Open
communication is key. Get to know your roommate(s) and their likes and
dislikes. Don't intentionally do things that will irate them and if something
is bothering you, speak up before it results in further issues.
2. Respect Boundaries
Lay down ground rules and stick to them. Discuss cleaning, sleeping,
noise and guest with your roommate(s) and follow through with what was agreed
upon.
3. Don't be a Borrower
As
tempting as it may be to use your roommate's food, cleaning supplies, hair
tools, kitchen appliances, etc., while they are not around, if they didn't give
you permission, don't. If it's not yours, keep your hands off it to avoid
conflicts.
4. Don't be Nasty
Clean up after yourself and
your guests. You wouldn't want to live in a dirty apartment and neither does
your roommate(s).
5. Be Willing to Compromise
Living
in a shared space with people who may have different habits means not
everything is going to be your way. It's okay to be firm with issues that
really matter to you, but be willing to hear your roommate(s) side and come to
a compromise that satisfies everyone.
If
you're living with someone with whom you think you have nothing in common, try
showing interest in some of the things they like to do and vice versa. Be open
to change as college is meant for learning and growing.
7. Make Yourself at Home, but Don't
Get Too Comfortable
Be
courteous towards your roommate(s) even if you've become good friends. Still
ask before borrowing, be polite, and have manner. Don't just assume it's okay
now that you're friends
Don’t
be quick to judge your roommate(s) or their guest because they have different
opinions, interests, or views than you. You don’t always have to agree with
them, but at least respect their standpoint.
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