Friday, February 26, 2016

8 Ways to Manage Roommate Conflicts by RA Sonam Patel





1. Communicate


Open communication is key. Get to know your roommate(s) and their likes and dislikes. Don't intentionally do things that will irate them and if something is bothering you, speak up before it results in further issues. 

2. Respect Boundaries


                                    


Lay down ground rules and stick to them. Discuss cleaning, sleeping, noise and guest with your roommate(s) and follow through with what was agreed upon. 
 
3. Don't be a Borrower


As tempting as it may be to use your roommate's food, cleaning supplies, hair tools, kitchen appliances, etc., while they are not around, if they didn't give you permission, don't. If it's not yours, keep your hands off it to avoid conflicts.

    4. Don't be Nasty
                                               


Clean up after yourself and your guests. You wouldn't want to live in a dirty apartment and neither does your roommate(s).
 
     5. Be Willing to Compromise


Living in a shared space with people who may have different habits means not everything is going to be your way. It's okay to be firm with issues that really matter to you, but be willing to hear your roommate(s) side and come to a compromise that satisfies everyone.

6. Be Willing to Try New Things


If you're living with someone with whom you think you have nothing in common, try showing interest in some of the things they like to do and vice versa. Be open to change as college is meant for learning and growing.

     7.  Make Yourself at Home, but Don't Get Too Comfortable


Be courteous towards your roommate(s) even if you've become good friends. Still ask before borrowing, be polite, and have manner. Don't just assume it's okay now that you're friends

8. Have an open mind


Don’t be quick to judge your roommate(s) or their guest because they have different opinions, interests, or views than you. You don’t always have to agree with them, but at least respect their standpoint.

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